Wednesday, May 28, 2008

How Not to Become Just a FRIEND to Her ?




Each human uses method, or method uses him ...

A guy that walks and talks only smart things, about science or philosophy will NEVER have an access to the girl's body.NEVER. And the proccess won't do anything by itself, until YOU help it.

You have to have a unique wish.
A girl can get used to conversations, but she will never have a sexual symposium. The paradox, but compared with that man it will be even more useful to touch the girls's body, lol.

I have a friend, that's what shethinks about it: "Happens, that I don't love the guy, but I like him, because he's so funny. We are not a pair, but we can walk and just talk for years. He wants more. I DON'T."

How to make that not to happen with YOU ?


Your relationships must evolve. With every dating you must take more. When you're walking together, you're trying to kiss or hug her, and she can't let you do that ... You go and think yourself that "It's wrong, I'm doing this too early"

The girl knows that and feels little victory. So you're losing this battle, you didn't pass her checking. You do not arrogance to make that again or to say "Bye forever" to her. She understands that you are too simple. Women don't like simple guys.

Girl can hint at that she needs you. If not the arrogance - you can lose her. So keep training yourself with that and make conclutions.

Good luck !

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Tuesday, May 27, 2008

The Mistakes of The Beginner : Hard @ Learning, Easy in Bed

Any beginner wants all at once. This is absolutely normal, so everywhere, not only with women! But the problem - girls do not realize this ... I remember I read the sites and books, grew up in their eyes, and women around simply did not understand this.

In such moments, and there is uncertainty in yourself, in its various forms..



For example - this blog is for losers just like you ... Or - if it works for other not for you, you just lozer for life ... Or - all girls are normal , and I've found only idiots...
The worst that happens in such doubts is you trying to find "magic pills". It's an active of reading books and smart tips on blogs and forums. And with tips, as you know, everything is simple - we easily accept those that suit us, and do not see any other around.

What is important for the pickupper-beginner ? He is looking for the easy ways and is not willing to look like the rest.

So, the triangle: a pioneer, the field, the fears. Forget about the fears.

First, any pioneer must be clearly aware of his place. If you want to geto off the limits, you need to understand them immediately.

To learn how to run, you must first learn to walk and run on manual is not much help.

There is a thing that you could be scared of, you'll think like "Damn, I'm too bad for her, she won't give me any phone number".
>STOP THAT. Think about another situation. You're walkin down the street, every girl looks at you. And one of them comes to you and says "Hello". Will you tell her to go away ? Definetely NO.


Finally, remember, women aru people just like you.

Now, get off the computer and go away on the street and come & bring few telephone numbers and a good conversations with girls !

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Saturday, May 24, 2008

You, she and her friend

Right now we'll talk about you, your girl and her friend. Not her boyfriend, just a female.

You've exchanged phones and e-mails. They live together. You can't even get whether they are students or prostitutes.To go for a walk with to of them ? To invite your friend ? It's not that good.

Okay, let's take a look @ this 2 variants, and chose that one that's better.




To call both for a walk.

Positive: 

  • You will get closer to both of them, so later you could choose one of them that you like more

  • The competition can happen between them for you. Just relax and enjoy

  • They won't get bored together

  • If you're lucky, you'll get the groupie sex.

Negative:


  • It's harder to make an intimate atmosphere

To take a friend with you.

Positive:

  • Your friend can make your joke fully successful, if it's still not
  • When you're split into pairs, it's easier to make an intimate atmosphere

Negative:

  • Your friend can take your girl
  • Both of girls can pay all the attention to your friend and to forget about you

To invite just the girl you like

Positive:

  • All in your hands

  • It's easier to hit the target
Negative:
  • If her friend has an influence, she can make your girl leave you
  • If her friend offends, she can make your girl leave you
__________

So, just think about the positeves and negatives and make your own choice.
Also it's interesting if you tell us in comments what story did you have with your girl and her friend.

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Friday, May 23, 2008

The Talking Tips

It is often when you have to communicate with people who you are mostly not interested in.People are arranged so that they give almost as much as receive from communicating, and if possible even less - we are all selfish.

Take a typical example: you have to approach someone, sharing a pair of phrases, then stand, trying to talk… and walk away. Pity? Undoubtedly. And what should you do if the person you want doesn't need you ?


There are several methods. Ways to make you want to talk with you have rights. Each of them works.

Sincerely be interested of your interlocutor.

Sometimes it is very difficult to do. Сhange yourself , be flexible. Find in your interlocutors something you really enjoy. It can be anything - from hair, finishing the quality as a person. Then you take that feeling, and deferring to the interlocutor, sincerely. You must think like this: "How couldn't I like such a person that has such beautiful watches, such great hair and a good sense of humour ?"

Create your energy sphere.

How would this does not sound strange, it's simple. This is one of the methods of creating so-called combat trans. You take a feeling that you need @ this moment. You always have it -sometimes you have it in a bigger degree sometimes in a less degree. Then you must move it to the center of your torso, somewhere in the region of the solar plexus. Naturally, all this is done mentally. ou start to think cyclically in this sense, each  spiral is more emotional.  In the end that feeling fills you and spills on the surrounding you people. People who stand side by side, are under the influence of the Spliced feeling and begin to feel something similar.

Breath the same way.

Breath the same depth and rhythm, that your interlocutor has. That really works, trust me. To do that, you have to hear it. Thats all, it's simple, isn't it ?

Conclusions.

To obtain the best possible result is to chang and to be flexible. Do not be afraid to experiment. On your way to your destination is all you need.




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The 3 Seconds Rule

Okay, let's begin, enough of those intros and all.

There is a rule, which is the main secret of success. It is called rule of three seconds or 3s. Once you find a pretty girl at your disposal, you have three seconds to force yourself to come to her. If you are going to remain in indecision… forget about her. Leave it permanently in the past… and look for another woman.


Even if you do not know what to talk about with her, still don't violate the 3s rule. You must achieve it anyway, that you've been noticed by the girl and create a good impression of yourself. Respecting the rule of three seconds, you demonstrate their courage.

If you don't apply the 3s rule, you most likely will look on the girls  with confusion, and the situation will get out of a hand. Rather than try to start a conversation with beauty, you give her the time to get the impression of you as loser that is afraid to make the first step. Meanwhile delay is like death! Just give yourself an explanation, why won't you just come to the woman.

The rule gives you three seconds, another advantage: it doesn't give you the time to think about the situation. You simply won't have time to sweat, to excite, to begin stutter. It is only allowed if you are new, you might begin to stutter and sweat during a call, but as a minimum, the first step in the acquaintance has already been made. You have made a very good first impression, and it will be remained so.

The best way with three seconds, shows itself in a new situation for you. People notice you when you open the door or go out because of the angle - because you make a change in the static surrounding environment. Every time you intend to go somewhere - whether in a bar, cafe or friendly party - you must be strictly observed to 3s.

Of course, there is an exception to the rule. For example, you find a pretty girl during a conversation with someone. In this case the countdown begins from the end of the conversation. Suppose she also noticed you, but still continues to communicate with his friend. No problem, wait until it disappears (sooner or later it necessarily happen).

What happens if you start fluctuate? All will be lost? Neither yes or no. If you violated the rule, then the best place once and for all erase the girl from your record. Of course, there are still many wonderful and cheerful women, but that is no excuse to commit the same mistake twice.

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I will even call it a basic training project.

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